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fall in love again by: Niki

I`ve never quite been the same since the death of my college sweetheart. It`s been almost two years since his death. Even though I left him a year prior due to the circumstances of what later became his demise, I never really got over him.

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Step 1: Do the things that make you happy. Take the time to enjoy a good book, a good movie or good music. Take the time to indulge in your favorite hobbies like singing, writing poetry and scrap booking.1
Step 2: Pamper yourself. Get your eyebrows waxed, get your nails done, get a haircut and get a massage on a regular basis, at least once a month, or once every other month. Grooming yourself is an important element to looking and feeling your best.2
Step 3: Look and feel good about yourself. Get healthy. Eat right. Exercise. Take an extra fifteen minutes every morning to do your hair and/or makeup. Every chance you walk out the door is a chance you might run into prince charming.3
Step 4: Focus on your career. I want to be financially independent before I commit to anyone wholeheartedly. I want to have my life together so that it will be easier to let someone in eventually.3
Step 5: Open your heart to someone new. Break down the wall you`ve built up so high and let someone into your heart for a change. 5
Step 6: Stop living in the past. The past can be haunting. Embrace the present rather than the past to ensure a brighter future.5

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Becs(987 Days ago)I like your plan Niki. It`s a formidable task but it looks like you`re opening yourself up again to love. Good luck! :)Flag as Inappropriate

globehound(986 Days ago)Having the courage to make a public statement and putting up a detailed Plan is a big step.Flag as Inappropriate

Foster(984 Days ago)I can relate to the sentiment, albeit, expressed a little differently, and so I too applaud your openness, willingness, and courage to try again. It`s the most laudable of goals... however you express it...

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JackieG(853 Days ago)My friends tell me I`m a huge hippy because I feel love can transform the world soo I give u sooo much credit for creating this plan. I also give you credit for putting yourself in a vulnerable position. In due time, you will fall in love and....it will b amazing.Flag as Inappropriate

Niki(769 Days ago)I`m having a really hard time with my last step, which I had presumed. I met up with an old friend from the past recently and he pointed out to me the one thing that seems to be obvious to everyone around me, but me... I`m still not over it after all this time. I look at him as if to say, "What are you talking about?" and he says to me, "Do you still have any of his stuff?" I choked and my eyes got wet because I didn`t want to admit the truth. I was an Indian giver and now have the sweater I gave to him as a gift with his first custom-made letters (for his fraternity). When I was moving into my new place, I thought about getting rid of it, but I just don`t have the heart to do it.

Does this thing have blogging features? That`d be cool if it did.Flag as Inappropriate

alexigue(699 Days ago)You can do it girl. In my past experiences I learned the hard way not to dwell on the past because it does not let you continue in the future. It sort of holds you back. Yet that does not mean to get rid of everything. Your entitled to keep one sentimental thing I think. But I know where you are coming from. Also there is blogger.com and its a great site to blog! I use it and its easy to use. You should try it.Flag as Inappropriate

Niki(624 Days ago)I haven`t fallen in love again, but I have started embracing the present, and I have a feeling 2010 is my year. I`ll report back if I ever meet a special someone. I`ve been single for far too long (4 years!)Flag as Inappropriate

Niki(399 Days ago)I`ve made a lot of progress, and have dated a couple people here and there, but I`m still single, going on for the 5th yearFlag as Inappropriate

jslsurf(330 Days ago)Niki,

This is a worthy goal. You seem to have a lot going for you, so it`s certainly not a goal beyond your reach. So, you have to ask yourself, "If I`ve completed all the steps on my someday list, why am I still single?" Maybe you really want to be single. That`s okay. Maybe you just haven`t found the right person. That`s too bad, but it can`t last forever. Maybe you`re waiting for somebody to be as perfect as your memory your now dead boyfriend. That`s never going to happen. You have to let your old boyfriend go and move on. You need a new someday, "Let my old boyfriend go so I can move on and have a new boyfriend."

I`ve been through this myself. I spent three years stuck on a girl who had not interest in me. Finally, one day a friend of mine asked me, "If she doesn`t want to date you, and she doesn`t want to have sex with you, and she keeps going out with other guys, why do you keep hanging out with her if what you really want is to be her boyfriend?" It was a tough thing to hear. You are essentially doing the same thing. Maybe you need a little ceremony where you let go of all the things that remind you of your old boyfriend. You don`t have to burn them or bury them, but you could box them up and give them to somebody to store in their attic or storage unit. Then give yourself a month to mourn the loss. Then start dating again with an honest intention of falling in love.

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Step 1: Do the things that make you happy. Take the time to enjoy a good book, a good movie or good music. Take the time to indulge in your favorite hobbies like singing, writing poetry and scrap booking.1
Step 2: Pamper yourself. Get your eyebrows waxed, get your nails done, get a haircut and get a massage on a regular basis, at least once a month, or once every other month. Grooming yourself is an important element to looking and feeling your best.2
Step 3: Look and feel good about yourself. Get healthy. Eat right. Exercise. Take an extra fifteen minutes every morning to do your hair and/or makeup. Every chance you walk out the door is a chance you might run into prince charming.3
Step 4: Focus on your career. I want to be financially independent before I commit to anyone wholeheartedly. I want to have my life together so that it will be easier to let someone in eventually.3
Step 5: Open your heart to someone new. Break down the wall you`ve built up so high and let someone into your heart for a change. 5
Step 6: Stop living in the past. The past can be haunting. Embrace the present rather than the past to ensure a brighter future.5